Ok I'm Steph and I'm the organiser behind live-cyber-sex.com

I'm in this with my partner Paulus and he's the ideas man (most of which have no semblance of reality) - he gets the ideas and goes into fantasy land and I'm the person who puts the groundwork into place to make things happen.

We did this (adult website) thing originally about 5 years ago and it almost ended with me strangling Paulus, infact things got so crazy with it that I even dreamt of doing it. I've said he can give it another go of making it work but theres rules in place this time, this doesnt take over our life (last time it was all he could think about) and if it looks like its not going to work we def it and move on (last time I almost ended up in an institution and bankrupt because of it so that's not going to happen this time round!)

I used to go on webcam myself but have refused point blank to do it anymore - well perhaps on the special occasion I may break my own rule!!